Touched With Our Grief
It is an incredible blessing to speak on the subject of grief, though I confess it is one I approach with humility. Grief is not simple. It is personal. It is layered. It manifests differently in every heart. As someone wisely said, “Death is not unusual. People die every day. But each death is unique. Lives woven together are now torn apart.” When Jesus stood at the tomb of Lazarus, He already knew a resurrection was minutes away. He had declared Himself to be “the resurrection, and the life.” And yet—He wept. Those two words remind us that grief is not weakness. It is love expressing its wound.
When I was fifteen, I stood in a hospital hallway after my dad had been rushed hours away. We assumed it was the flu. We assumed everything would be fine. But it wasn’t. I did not have a theological grid for grief at that age. I just knew something inside of me had been torn out. Years later, when April lost her mother suddenly, we were reminded again that grief does not disappear with maturity. It simply takes different shapes. Jesus wept because He loved Lazarus (John 11:36). Grief is the cost of loving deeply. The deeper the love, the deeper the ache.
The Bible never rebukes sorrow. Psalm 34:18 says, “The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart.” He does not stand distant from our pain—He draws near to it. Psalm 56:8 reminds us that God bottles our tears. And 1 Thessalonians 4:13 tells us we do sorrow, but not as those without hope. Christian grief is not the absence of pain; it is pain with promise. We cry—and we cling. We mourn—and we believe. Resurrection does not erase the valley, but it guarantees the valley is not the end.
If you are grieving today, give yourself permission to weep. Tears are not faithlessness—they are human. Bring your sorrow to Christ instead of hiding it. Pour out your heart before Him (Psalm 62:8). Stay connected to godly community (Galatians 6:2). Guard your heart from bitterness (Hebrews 12:15). And remind yourself daily that because Jesus lives, death does not have the final word (1 Corinthians 15:55–57). You may walk through the valley of the shadow of death—but you do not walk it alone (Psalm 23:4).
"The righteous shall be glad in the LORD, and shall trust in him; And all the upright in heart shall glory." — Psalm 64:10
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This Week's Radio Program
Week Twelve • March 22, 2026
Trusting God in the Storms (Pt. 3)
Storms don’t schedule appointments. One moment the sun is shining, the next the wind is howling and everything feels out of control. In this message from Mark 6, we walk with the disciples into a very real storm on the Sea of Galilee — tired, rowing hard, and making little progress. The wind was contrary. The night was long. And Jesus was not in the boat… at least not yet.
But what they did not realize was that while they were fighting the storm, Jesus was watching from the mountain. He saw them toiling. And in the fourth watch of the night — when strength was gone and hope was thin — He came walking on the water. When they acknowledged Him, everything changed. The storm ceased. The fear faded. The destination was reached.
Most of us know what it feels like to row against contrary winds — burdens, opposition, uncertainty, exhaustion. Proverbs 3 reminds us that storms reveal what we’re leaning on. “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.” The question is not if storms will come — Isaiah 43 says when. The question is: Who are you trusting when they do?
In this message, we explore three powerful truths: a reliance upon God, a recognition of His presence, and a rebuke against trusting our own wisdom. Calm does not come from better rowing — it comes from Christ in the boat. Join us as we learn how to put all our weight down and trust Him fully, even when the winds are strong.