In December of 2013, a very unusual military funeral took place in California. Sergeant First Class Joseph Gantt, a man who had served his country in both World War II and the Korean War, was finally laid to rest. He had been captured during the Korean War in 1950 and died the following year, but for decades his body was never returned, and his death was never confirmed. For all those years, his story remained unfinished.

What moves my heart most is not just his service, but the quiet faithfulness of his wife, Clara. She waited for decades, attending meetings with government officials, asking questions, hoping for answers. She even bought a house and had it professionally landscaped so that if Joseph ever came home, all he would have to do was go fishing. That kind of waiting is not passive—it is hopeful, committed, and deeply rooted in love.

Clara was ninety-four years old when Joseph’s remains were finally brought home for a military funeral with full honors. It wasn’t the reunion she had dreamed of, but it was the moment when the waiting ended. When asked about her long faithfulness, Clara said something that still lingers in my mind: “He told me if anything happened to him, he wanted me to remarry. And I told him, ‘No, no.’ Here I am, still his wife, and I’m going to remain his wife until the day the Lord calls me home.”

That kind of love reminds us that true, godly love is not temporary or convenient. It does not depend on circumstances going right or emotions running high. Love is a commitment—a choice of the will—to remain faithful even when answers are delayed and hopes are stretched. Casual commitments cannot sustain deep relationships, but enduring love reflects the heart of God Himself.

When I think about Clara’s faithfulness, I’m reminded that this is how God loves us—not with a fleeting affection, but with an unfailing love that endures through time, silence, and uncertainty. It is that kind of love we are called to reflect in our marriages, our families, and our walk with the Lord—steady, committed, and anchored in faith.