Loving Their Mother

I once read a humorous story in the Houston Chronicle about some of the worst Mother’s Day gifts ever given. One man named Jerry Maltz decided to give his wife an iron for Mother’s Day. Apparently, he did not realize how poorly that gift would be received until Father’s Day arrived and his wife handed him an ironing board in return. Needless to say, the message came through loud and clear.

While the story makes us smile, it also reminds us how easy it can be to overlook the importance of showing genuine love and appreciation in marriage. Sometimes people become so busy with work, schedules, responsibilities, and life itself that they stop expressing affection in meaningful ways. The relationship slowly drifts into routine instead of intentional love.

I have often heard the statement, “The greatest gift a father can give to his children is to love their mother.” There is tremendous truth in those words. Children may not remember every toy, vacation, or expensive purchase, but they will remember the atmosphere of the home they grew up in. They notice tenderness. They notice kindness. They notice whether Dad speaks respectfully to Mom and whether love is visible in daily life.

A husband who loves his wife well is teaching his children something powerful about Christ. The Bible compares the love of a husband for his wife to Christ’s love for the church—a sacrificial, patient, faithful, and caring love. That kind of love is not built merely on gifts or words alone, but on daily actions, thoughtful attention, forgiveness, and commitment.

Sometimes the smallest gestures mean the most. A kind word. A listening ear. Time spent together. Gratitude expressed sincerely. Love is often shown in ordinary moments more than grand occasions. The home becomes warmer when love is practiced intentionally.

For those who are husbands and fathers, never underestimate how deeply your love for your wife shapes your family. And for every believer, let this be a reminder that love should never simply be assumed—it should be demonstrated.